You don’t get to break somebody’s heart and say you still care about them.
That’s not true at all, and you know it. Intelligently and objectively recognizing that a relationship is unhealthy, dangerous or sick and deciding to change it does not terminate ones ability to love for someone you care about.
One of the toughest parts about relationships is having your mind understand the following concept:
There’s You. There’s Me. There’s Us.
Sometimes, You, and Me are better apart than we are together. It hurts. It hurts alot to see this, and it hurts even more. But when you can recognize that when you look at the grand scale of your life, learning to be a better person is a richer way to live than living as an unhappy one never realizing your potential.
I’ve broken hearts, and I still cared. My choice was a better thing for both of us. She’s moved on and happy in ways I never could have ever made her. I am on an amazing journey as well.
I’ve also had my heart broken. She did not intend to hurt me to the degree that she did. She did care.
But these are many words, so I will end with wishing you a beautiful day!
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